Divorce. It’s a word that carries a weight of emotions – sadness, anger, confusion, and often, overwhelming stress. And while the emotional rollercoaster is undeniable, the financial implications can be just as daunting. That’s where I come in.
I’m Jayne Wildish, a regulated financial planner specialising in divorce, a pension specialist, and a qualified divorce coach. I offer a unique service, blending financial expertise with the emotional understanding that comes from personal experience. I’ve been through divorce myself, and as I approach my five-year separation milestone, I can honestly say: time is a healer. But healing also requires careful planning, especially when it comes to your finances.
I understand that divorce isn’t just about splitting assets; it’s about rebuilding your life. It’s about understanding your financial present and planning for a secure future, whether that’s 5, 10, 15, or even 20 years down the line. It’s easy to get caught up in the immediate concerns – keeping the family home, maintaining stability for the children. But as I often say, you can’t eat a brick. How will you maintain that house? Financially and physically? Your ex won’t be popping round to mow the lawn or fix the leaky roof.
For the first time ever, there are more women divorced in their 50s than ever before. The landscape of divorce is changing, and the financial considerations are becoming increasingly complex. Whether you’re navigating a high-net-worth separation or have limited financial knowledge, I can help.
What makes my service different?
I offer a truly bespoke service tailored to your individual needs. I understand that everyone’s situation is unique, and I’ll work with you at your pace, explaining complex financial matters in a way you understand. Whether you’re a financial whiz or have very little knowledge, I’ll speak your language.
Here’s how I can help:
Financial Clarity: I’ll help you understand your current financial position, breaking down complex jargon and providing a clear picture of your assets and liabilities.
Future Planning: We’ll look beyond the immediate aftermath of divorce and plan for your long-term financial security. What will you need in 5, 10, or 20 years? We’ll create a roadmap for achieving your financial goals.
Pension Expertise: Pensions are often a significant asset in divorce, but they can be incredibly complex. As a pension specialist, I can help you understand your options and ensure you receive a fair settlement.
Divorce Coaching: I’m also a qualified divorce coach, so I understand the emotional challenges you’re facing. I provide support and guidance, helping you navigate the process with greater confidence and clarity.
Collaboration: I work closely with your legal team or mediator, ensuring that your financial plan aligns with your legal strategy. While I’m not a lawyer, I have a network of trusted legal professionals I can recommend if needed.
My approach is simple: I help you achieve a more rational divorce. I’ll help you understand your finances, make informed decisions, and work within your financial capabilities. I’m here to empower you to take control of your financial future and build a brighter tomorrow.
Ready to take control of your pounds? Contact me today for a free consultation. Let’s discuss your needs and how I can help you navigate this challenging chapter of your life.



